American psychologists conducted a large-scale study, the results of which revealed the following information: 94, 6% of married men who do not have problems with potency, changed or wish to change their wives. What can I say? Of course, we do not live in America, but our men are not averse to admire someone else's ass or breasts in front of his wife. Maybe this is normal (well, let him look, do not lose anything from us!), But maybe we should think about how true to your husband all these years, you live together?
Someone thinks that a woman feels her husband's infidelity, not without reason in the fairer sex so strongly developed intuition! What all can understand in the eyes and by their actions, nothing complicated about it. Where did the sad story that his wife know about the double way of life of their husbands at the very least? When everything is known and the name of his mistress, and for how long they occur, and poor wife, as they say, "neither sleep nor spirit." And believe me, it happens not infrequently. How hard to realize that all these years you have betrayed and deceived, and so you believed her husband and tried to be good for him, loving wife! How to recognize the betrayal of her husband and to protect themselves from such humiliation?
How to recognize her husband's infidelity
There are many ways to notice that your husband's affair. Changing behavior, habits, schedule. If you have ever suspected of loyalty to his men, then carefully examine all the external factors which may indicate the possibility of betrayal. Forewarned is forearmed!
The work has become more and less money
If your husband was often stay at work, going to the office on weekends and constantly go on business trips, it is a serious occasion to reflect. Maybe your spouse is a regular favorite workaholic, who spare no effort of his, trying to financially provide for his family. But in these circumstances it can be a completely different reason. If your husband had an attachment to the side, he needed time to meet with this woman. Of course, a couple of times it can take time off from work in order to arrange a meeting, but on a regular basis so do not come out. That has him poor, constantly get out, inventing new "blockages at work" and unexpected demands leadership to come to work on a day off.
Working longer, your husband, in theory, should bring home more money. And how could it be otherwise: the higher the amusement, the more salary! But if you suddenly notice that at a busy schedule of money in the family diminished, it is a serious warning bell. What if the husband has expenses intended for another woman? For lover to care: give her flowers, gifts, and maybe keep it - for example, to pay for an apartment or a joint trip. Remember, everything in your life was just as well as future husband won your attention.
You can easily check whether your husband is at work at an inopportune time, or is it true that at the weekend he went on a business trip. Just call his office and ask for the phone. If some of your attempts to contact them in the workplace have not been successful - is a bad sign. It makes no sense to ask about the whereabouts of your friends in common, if they - his colleagues. Man always cover up his friend out of a sense of solidarity of men, women - simply do not want to get into someone else's family relationships. Yes, and look in front of your spouse, "informer" hardly any of them would want, so I have bypassed without their help.
Changes in appearance
Sometimes men start for no reason at all to pay too much attention to their appearance. Of course, every woman pleased when her husband does not like unkempt orangutan - always clean shaved, and dressed to the nines. But most men are lukewarm to the need to make daily beauty rituals, and we are used to seeing them with little disheveled hair, the two-day stubble and ordinary, nothing pretentious clothes. For us, this situation is quite natural: it is we women should shine with beauty and well-groomed, a man well enough to be neat and tidy.
And if such a normal man, never before dushivshiysya French cologne and wore costumes doroguschih, suddenly begins to surprise you with the care of the perfect appearance, it is not without reason. There is a small chance that the leadership of his company, new requirements for the dress code, but this is unlikely. Typically, the desire to look their best appears in men when they want to impress a beautiful lady. And if you have a few years of marriage and you, he does not hesitate to go to the stretched sweat pants and holey socks, lady, this, alas, did not you.
Sometimes changing your lifestyle strange behavior of her husband. That he is irritable and thoughtful, although the reasons for this seems to be there, no reason, no reason at all becomes too sweet and tender. Especially after the strange absences on weekends and evenings. What it is: stress, problems at work? Maybe guilt after having sex with another woman? Both options are possible, and to soothe your soul, you need to how to look at the behavior of her husband.
Too often, shifty eyes, the eyes become distracted, then a little guilty? And besides, his mobile phone and at the entrance to a social network, new passwords? Yes, the situation is unpleasant. You'll have to take a closer look at the spouse, and along with his clothes more often to check for traces of another woman. Traces of lipstick on his shirt, long hair on someone else's jacket or on the seat of the car, the smell of women's perfume. Some men change their wives, just showing miracles of ingenuity in order to "light up". Coming home, they run headlong into the shower head wash incredibly fragrant shampoo and stuffing her clothes into the washing machine before it has time to get dirty.
Finding these clues, you will have to stand before a choice: to demand an explanation from her husband or a close eye on everything. In any case, wait a little scandal, and clarify the relationship as long as you are sure to change for sure. Try nevertheless examine his phone, if the husband has another woman, then surely there is a record of calls and SMSes tender.
New Equipment sex
Like it or not, and in bed for a long time, we have studied the habits of their pious. Although sometimes we try to diversify your sex, but radically new tricks do not expect from her husband. And suddenly your spouse in bed does something quite unusual for you. Having fun and enjoy new experiences, you are thinking about the reasons for this metamorphosis. Sex in bed - it is the same as cooking in the kitchen: every family gets used to the same dishes, but something brand new regale guests only. But unlike the food for sex, you do not go for the guests.
The head immediately climb unwelcome thought: why he did not do it before? I do not know how? Then who taught him? If your husband is not a fan of porn movies and if Kamasutra - not his handbook, all these issues very reasonable. Somehow it's hard to believe that inspiration struck, and at once he mastered the new technique of sex. It is logical to assume that the skills of their spouse received in another bed, and he became an instructor your opponent. Of course, changing the behavior of her husband during sex does not prove the fact of change, but if you have any doubts, you can add this point in his piggy bank suspicion.
As a "catch" the traitor: folk ways
Many women are not sufficiently intuitive methods to recognize the betrayal of his Blessed. For generations, women passed the little tricks, which you can catch her husband's infidelity. You can laugh at these grandmother's ways, and can be taken seriously and to check on your own husband: you never joke, and suddenly really change?
Focus with bath
In many villages and towns still check her husband's fidelity as follows: after absences husband undress from the waist down and put in the trough. You can take a bath - it will be much more convenient. So, the trick is that the man who had sexual relations recently, testicles emerge. Drowning - it does not change surfaced - "Oh, you damn dog !!! "
The fact that this did not scientific, and possibly surfacing and sinking of the manhood may completely unknown to us reasons. However, it was this way in all seriousness are many women who suspect their husbands of infidelity. And, most interestingly, more likely to be right! Try and pounding his be far from good peasant in the bath and check its intimate space on buoyancy. If we fail to establish the truth, or at least have some fun on the soul.
Here everything is simple and clear: the husband comes from the next evening "meetings", and you - bang, and demanded the execution of marital debt. Immediately, immediately, without having to eat and swim. Sexual giants among men becoming less satisfy two women at once, and even one for another, not every man is capable of. That's clever wife checked for the presence of their husbands' sexual hunger. Cope with the problem - well done, keep it up! Not right - to accuse of treason.
Unfortunately, sometimes the most faithful man could not cope with the task. The reasons can be many: fatigue, irritation, poor health, lack spirit. But there are times when the wife is too well aware of sexual performance of their husbands and can easily calculate the "unplanned act" on the side. If you fall into this category ladies, the risk and try to pounce on her husband demanding sex soon after he came home. Perhaps it is something to be clarified.
Focus with potassium permanganate
Suppose your husband comes home, and you are seriously suspected him of infidelity. Before going to bed soaked panties that were on his wife that day, in a basin with tap water. And her husband say that according to the ancient belief water in the basin will be pink if the men, their nosivshem was sex during the day. What exactly is your great-grandmother, aunt and cousins aunt was accused their husbands of infidelity. Like, this is mystic, but it works! The main thing is let down in his rational head even a small seed of doubt in the unreality of this method.
Of course, my husband does not believe and laugh at you and quietly go to sleep. As soon as he falls asleep, in a bowl, add water a little potassium permanganate - so much so that the water has become slightly pink. If the husband is guilty in front of you, it always will glance in the morning or at night in the ill-fated bowl: you never know what? And certainly change the water. Bottom line: if you woke up and found in the pelvis crystal clear water, so the husband is wrong, and you succumb to your provocation. If the water is pink - everything is in order, your spouse is "clean."
This is a rather cruel way to learn about her husband's infidelity, because that recognition would have to literally pull out from the pain. Briefs alleged traitor sprinkle with pepper, and then he, poor fellow, begins to itch terribly. CARDS for the company and you, simultaneously accusing the wife of sexually transmitted diseases in all the world, which he picked up with his mistress.
When a husband brings home a disease resulting sexually, then to deny the recognition of treason pointless too obvious evidence of his infidelity. And if your husband really have a peccadillo, it saw a terrible rash on intimate places, and heard quite a fair charge, he may give up and tell the whole story. It is then he will start to run on the hospitals for tests, clarify the diagnosis, and the unexpected collision of you "crack" as pretty. That's just what if the husband is innocent, and you will cause him such terrible suffering? And suddenly he had an allergic reaction occurs or something like that? So think twice before you pour your favorite pepper pants.
Well, when you know how to recognize the betrayal of his beloved, but do not take up this fanaticism. The excessive zeal on the part of women destroyed many families, so poosteregsya exhaust itself and its unfounded suspicions. The very knowledge of her husband's infidelity will bring nothing but suffering. You will either have to separate or live with it on, waiting for further betrayal. Of course, it is unpleasant to be deceived, but if you value your relationship and do not want to change in your personal life, you can not look for a black cat in a dark room? Especially because it can not be there.
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