• What they think
  • "Justifiable" reasons
  • They have no time
  • He was hard to make the first step
  • Why did the turtle does not fly & gt; Because I do not want
  • Dear widget
  • Miss Inaccessibility
  • Hurry
  • Getting on the internet
  • Should I call him first
  • What's up

That came first date with a pleasing man - is exciting, important event! You are thoroughly prepared for it in advance thinking about every little thing, every detail of the toilet is about a list of issues addressed by the article about dating online. And, like, everyone has been very successful, but here's the problem: he promised to call, but the phone is silent as enchanted. Why he does not call, what is the reason?

Such questions swirling in my head most of the girls, whose guys do not call after the first date. They wind themselves do not depart from the phone, according to the hours and minutes waiting for a call. "Maybe I did not like him? But it was so cool! But then, why he did not call after the first date? He does not want to continue ?! "

What are they thinking?

First of all, it should be said that many men are telephone conversations are not as serious as a woman. They may simply not know what to talk about, feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. And indeed their minds can not imagine that you are experiencing due to the fact that he was rarely calls. Well and if it is a call after the first date - do all the difficult and causes can be many.

Sometimes here and interfere with financial problems: the call involves an invitation to the girl in a decent place, and money for this can not be. That pulled the guys time, waiting for the next paycheck, so as not to lose face.

But more often, sadly, guys do not call back because they just did not like the girl. You indefinitely can prove to yourself and others that everything was fine, the young man may have a different opinion on this matter. And this happens, alas, it was after the first date.

It does not matter whether you recognized the guy in love on a date, have you admired and swore allegiance to - it's just a word. But attention should be paid only on the actions. Believe me, many men are able to say the word "love" seven different women every day of the week. They just have no moral barrier, responsible to this beautiful word.

"I love, I love you" - these words. Call and request for a meeting - act. See the difference?

"Justifiable" reasons

Quite low, but it's still a chance that the man did not call back for an important reason, is. It's just a teaspoon of honey in a barrel of tar, but in life there are such cases:

  • He lost his cell phone and can not call you back;
  • He accidentally erased your phone number and could not recall from memory;
  • He believes it is wrong to behave on a date and even more afraid to scare you;
  • His swollen hands and do not fall for the phone buttons;
  • He immediately left the city, the country, unable to prevent;
  • He is seriously ill and is on a drip, in plaster, etc .;
  • he died

As you can see, there are many reasons that can soothe your wounded pride. However, any man who liked a girl, overcome any of these items and find a way to contact her. Except, perhaps, the last ...

They have no time?

AT echnaya excuse "no time" - is also a ploy. A man can delay the call for a day, for two. But if he does not call back within three days - forget it.

Do not try to justify the behavior of a guy who does not call you, do not invent a reason. If a man likes a woman, he will contact her from all over the world, from space, from the dead! Even if an hour had a coronation or a meeting with strangers, he will find a way to call that to someone indifferent.

Blockage at work, a lot of customers, domestic problem - it is a trifle, when a man truly in love. What he does not call you because of employment - a myth. Just forget about this man, this is not your prince.

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He was hard to make the first move?

Do you really think that men are so touching, naive creatures that are not able to make the first step towards your relationship? It does not matter how much a man is shy by nature: if he really want to communicate with you - it will receive.

Men by nature hunters. They are ready to move mountains for the sake of a beautiful lady. And for all the millennium of human history is the quality has not changed. Men are moved by a special passion, a desire to get a woman to prove its leadership.

They are able and want to get your location by all means. Or do not want to. And it can happen after any svidaniya- not necessarily the first one. For men, it's simple: a woman has ceased to please - it stopped ringing.

Why did the turtle does not fly? Because I do not want to!

Why he does not call after the meeting? Oh, just do not want to. The guy may be of interest to business, favorite hobby, lack of time. If after the first date, you suddenly become more relevant than other interests, he can not call back. Why would he waste his time if he does not see the reason in your relationship? Just looking for sex? And you need it?

Perhaps he was just bored with you, and maybe you do not meet his ideals. All is impossible to please. Well, God bless him - then he stopped and we are interested in, right? We are women, not sex machines.

How would handsome you are, no matter how perfect was your inner peace - you are not insured by the fact that just do not like. Almost every woman once in my life experienced this - just do not generate interest on a first date.

This is not the end of the world. The world is full of other nice guys with whom you can make a pleasant acquaintance.

Dear widget

There is a type of women who demand a just the best. More precisely, not the best, but expensive. Already on the first date, they do not expect anything but luxury restaurants and expensive favors.

Firstly, not every man can afford it. Second, even very wealthy people do not like their "unwind." Well, if you think such a thing is necessary, do not rush to your requirements too quickly, otherwise discourage potential beau.

Any man appreciates a woman's attitude towards his beloved, in sorrow and in joy, wealth and poverty. As soon as he felt that you are much more interesting to his purse than the inner world, he changed his mind to call you and build a long-term relationship. Perhaps soon you will not even notice the problem, but if the man began to call rare - think about it, is not this the reason?

Miss Inaccessibility

Another common reason why he does not call or write - your inflated opinion of himself. Sometimes a girl with a very attractive appearance wearing a full face mask of inaccessibility, "Who are you to be beside me! ". Such an attitude rarely leads to something serious - it is no wonder why you did not call the beauties to you with disdain looked all last night.

Even if in the heart this girl dreams about the guy, her expression repels the opposite sex. You probably noticed that among the beautiful women living alone than among prostushek?

Conventional sociable girls fawned lot more guys: they are constantly invited to travelers, woos. At the time, as unapproachable beauty face "do not come, and then kill you" are all alone.

And even if a man decided on a first date, then the mask of superiority and indifference kills it every intention to continue dating. Is it time to replace your mask, and along with the character?

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Hurry ...

Sometimes a first date ends with the first same sex. Very often this becomes the last sex with this partner. What did you expect? After sex, the man turned on his head and he starts to think. Unfortunately or fortunately, but one sex is clearly not enough for the relationship to be.

Men - conquerors by nature. If you are already on a first date, they got everything they wanted, then why would they meet with you again? There is a famous saying: "Every woman is worthy sex, but not every second." So is it any wonder why he does not call after sex, which happened on the first night? Rarely has such a relationship continued.

Having made a rough idea of ​​your moral principles, a man unlikely to want to see you my constant friend. After all, if you've just gone on contact with it, can man be sure of your loyalty? Do not you share a bed with another man during a quarrel, his absence and so on?

At this point there is nothing to blame the guy in the callousness and lack of attention - even if the sex was amazing, interesting man to find a new object of passion, than to conquer something that does not require the conquest.

Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule. Perhaps some good marriages and begin with those of free visits. But still, it is very rare. A man should earnestly and faithfully to love a woman before the meeting, so as not to be disappointed in her behavior.

Getting on the internet

It is fashionable to start dating through the Internet. On the Web there are so many social networks, dating sites, special chat. Many young people in general are puzzled as before their parents and grandparents find each other without the Internet.

What could be simpler: find guys in the city, the photos in question, to study the information about their interests. After a short dialogue can be found in the nearest cafe to have a romantic friendship.

However, these are rarely successful dating. How much do you meet people, to spread bad pictures to your profile, telling about the problems and shortcomings of his character? This happens very rarely, if ever, happens. Some even turn to professional photographers, arrange a photo shoot for expensive dating sites.

Even if you were sitting round the clock network, communicating with their chosen one, if felt soulmates - absolutely not the fact that the acquaintance like each other. If you are a little bit different from the image created on the site itself, the guy can not call this happens quite often.

You can spend hours listing acquaintances who met on the internet and live happily together. In any rule there are exceptions, not the fact that you are lucky and you. By the way, in fact, such relationships are rarely what happens. The good old method of dating "in real life" is still running. At least, the two of you will know the pros and cons of each other, but it's worth it. And you do not have to guess why not call your partner.

Should I call him first?

There are cases when a girl, fascinated by the first date, do not stand up and calling first. What usually happens? The guy apologized, did not call back, refers to the weight of affairs, swears contact with her a couple of days. Once again he was silent, she calls back to him a couple of times, but the guy answers all reluctantly cases had more, and he did not take the phone. A woman sitting and wondering - why not call? In short, rarely such attempt is successful.

What is the outcome?

Wounded pride, depression, resentment against the whole world. Although the offense is only itself. It is not necessary to take away men's initiative, his pesky calls, you will not get anywhere. Rarely, some men like pristavuchie ladies. If you liked it, it would already have occurred regardless of its del.A so - left to wonder, why he did not call.

You only flatter his vanity, will become a lower rank in the relationship "man-woman". You do not even need to win, you are ready to run after him on the first call.

So is it worth to be humiliated and to call first? The answer is obvious: of course not! If you are so hard to resist the temptation - in the mobile erase all contacts. If he will call you back, then you have time to write down his phone number. There is even a nice - you pick up the phone, not knowing that this is it. His calm voice you show that not much waiting call, and save face.

If you're unlucky and the man for some reason, I did not call, do not despair. It is not necessary to execute itself endlessly, to experience and get depressed. You are sure to meet someone who will love you and will be there. And then you have absolutely no time for empty feelings about the phone calls, because you'll be busy these relations.

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