how to organize their own wedding


  • Six months before the anniversary
  • For the three months ...
  • A month left ...
  • For two weeks…
  • Post Scriptum

Wedding - is one of the most important moments of life. This is a great event that will forever remain in the memory, and each pair (and especially the bride) want everyone to a celebration held at the highest level. Today many couples are turning to the services of wedding agencies, which organize the wedding, as they say, from A to Z. However, the services of professionals have an additional cost. So young and their parents have to spend not only on clothes, banquets and other components of a wedding celebration, but also for the services of the organizers.

And often the price is, to put it mildly, somewhat overpriced. Therefore, many couples are thinking about how to organize your own wedding, and why, in the end, not to take the risk? After all this is managed by our predecessors, self-organizing weddings when no agency, however, did not yet! And what we are worse? However, before you begin to understand the rules of preparation of the wedding, let us look at the advantages and disadvantages of this option. Thus, the advantages of:

  • budget savings. As well as full control of the part of the bride and groom on the preparation;
  • after that you will have experience in preparing weddings. Who knows, it may be useful in the future.

Alas, this is the pros. And now, the drawbacks:

  • You will need to spend a lot of their own time and effort;
  • referring to a lack of or no experience in the preparation of such events can develop quite an unpleasant situation;
  • not ruled out force majeure;
  • have all come to an agreement on their own;
  • the number of spent nerves and say nothing ...

If you are not afraid of difficulties, and you are ready to start organizing your wedding yourself, keep in mind that to prepare the celebration of the past month is practically impossible. So try not to hurry and give yourself the pleasure of this at least three months, and it is better if all six months.

You need to start training with the study of the wedding inside. Chat with other married couples visit the forums this topic, find out who had difficulties, and how they solved them and so danee. Through this live communication, you can find the smallest and at the same time important details of preparation. For example, none of wedding agency does not know that the wedding rings to buy better in the afternoon, as if his fingers had swollen a little. Thus, you will not go wrong with the size.

Now let's write out the preparation of the wedding for six months. Why is that? If you want to get really good DJs, photographers, video, beautiful cafes, note that m they can be very busy schedule, and a month before the wedding, you have no one anywhere will not enter. Thus, we begin the countdown.

Six months before the anniversary

Tell everyone about his intention, consider the guest list, the idea of ​​wedding decoration, prepare a holiday scenario. A lot of things difficult? And who said that the organization of the wedding on their own - it is just? But how many memories and most of them - nice. If you want your wedding day to marry, then be sure to ask if there was then a church festival, which do not make the wedding.

In addition, you will still be enough time to change the script, and if he will suddenly cease to please. And most importantly - young can during this time to convince the parents that they need just such a wedding, which they want, but not that, what was the parents. And deal with a list of guests is also desirable as early as possible. After all, if you do not want to collect on their wedding all semiyurodnyh relatives, parents can seriously offended. But in the time that remains before the wedding, all the insults pass, and negative emotions burned.

 independently organize a wedding

For the three months ...

It's time to submit the application to the registrar, buy rings and choose the witnesses. Those who marry will also need to choose the temple and to discuss all the details of the ceremony with the priest.

It is time to send out invitations, and, and find out who can and who can not attend the wedding. If you follow the rules of etiquette, you will receive an invitation to the wedding, guests should notify you. And you, respectively, will be able to adjust the guest list.

Now the bride is the most difficult and responsible task - the choice of wedding dress. If you do not have in mind any special idea, then start looking at magazines and websites from the wedding dress. Do not tighten with a visit to stores. If the dress you do not sew, and buy, then be prepared for the fact that it will need a few more times before the wedding to try to make sure that it sits nicely on you. Also, do not forget about the accessories - a handbag, bolero, gloves, tiaras, veil and shoes. All of them should be in harmony with your dress.

Another important point in the preparation of the wedding - the choice of Toastmaster. Do not take the first available. Speak with all candidates an idea of ​​their wedding and choose the one who will be with you "on the same wavelength." Discuss then again your script and correct it together. If you have more scheduled and second day of the wedding, do not forget his plan.

Three months before the wedding, it's time to start cooking and have a wedding dance of the young. Objectively assess their skills, strength and complexity of the dance. It is best to begin training with choreographer early and deal with an individual program. If after the wedding you are planning to go on a honeymoon, you now start to prepare all documents, arrange for leave.

A month left ...

At this time, the bride has determined hairstyle, make-up and manicure. With selected stylist will need to appoint a rehearsal to check how everything will go the chosen bride. In addition, should a few times to visit the beauty salon to carry out cleansing facial. At the same time, and you can pick up a suit and shoes to the groom.

In the same month to visit selected ballroom: look around, think about how to decorate the room for the wedding alone (again, saving), decide with the staff, where and how will be placed tables, where sit the young. Decorating the room - not the most difficult task. If you approach the creative and attract friends, all must come at its best! Options decorating weight: balloons, live and artificial bouquets of flowers, draperies, paper or fabric. Main, show imagination.

Do not forget about the decoration of the wedding entourage. If you have the possibility to use as wedding cabs friends and family - lovely. And if not, then the vehicles will need to be hired. This issue also needs to decide in advance. And be sure to think over the route of a wedding convoy, so you do not lead to misunderstandings.

 organize their own wedding

For two weeks…

Bride need more time to try the dress and choose a bouquet and groom - boutonniere. By the way, it is possible to make their own hands or the hands closest girlfriends (sisters, aunts). Do not forget to order a loaf and a wedding cake. Once again double-check the guest list, call Toastmasters, DJ, photographer and loans festive menu.

It will be very good, if you will make a step by step plan of action for the day of the wedding the groom and for the bride alone, with the time and action. Then you certainly do not mess up and forget. Then the groom did not immediately go to the registry office, and by looking at the plan, see that he has a bride to take (anything can happen in the hectic pre-wedding).

Traditionally, before the wedding grandiose hen and stag parties. Two weeks before the holiday is very appropriate. But on the eve of the celebration is better to arrange a day of rest. Go to a favorite cafe, spa, watch a movie, relax and sleep.

Of course, not all the details uchtesh, and to organize their own wedding took place at the highest level, you need to consider all the nuances to take into account all the details, even the most insignificant at first glance. Listen to others' advice, do not give up on the help of friends and relatives. And best of all - assign two or three trusted people who will control more and you have to just do not forget.

Post Scriptum

And now let's just write out all the points - what and when, who and why.

  • Draw up a plan in advance preparation for the wedding, describing every week that was left before the celebration.
  • Immediately after the bride said "yes", you can assign the date and celebration. Do not forget to make a list of guests, podyschu place celebrations, Master of ceremonies, photographer, DJ, and so on.
  • If there is a wedding, the pre-decide all questions relating to this ritual.
  • For two or three months, submit an application to the registrar.
  • Prepare and send them invitations.
  • Take the wedding procession - order it, and select design.
  • It is time the bride to choose her dress, jewelry and other accessories.
  • Buy wedding rings.
  • Solve the issue with buddies for the bride and groom's best men.
  • Bride's time to the beautician, makeup artist, hairdresser.
  • If you are going on a honeymoon, the pre-visit travel agencies.
  • Do not forget about the preparation of the wedding dance.
  • Not less than 2 weeks before the wedding, make wedding cakes and loaves.
  • Bridesmaids should already have drawn up a plan of redemption, to prepare for the jobs of the groom, posters and other stuff.
  • Make a plan for the wedding day for the groom and bride for separately.

That's all the main points of the wedding. If they are taken into account, it is your wedding, and without the intervention of the agency will be held at the highest level. The main thing - do not worry and get yourself together. And all you get! Love and happiness to you!

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